Mediation in Florida Divorce: What You Need to Know

Divorce is never easy—but in Florida, many couples find that mediation offers a smoother, more respectful way to reach a resolution. Mediation is not only encouraged by the courts—it’s often required, especially in contested divorce cases.
Whether you’re facing disagreements about property division, child custody, or alimony, understanding the mediation process can help you prepare and feel more in control.
What Is Mediation?
Mediation is a confidential, non-adversarial process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) helps divorcing spouses resolve their disputes. Unlike a judge, the mediator doesn’t make decisions. Instead, they guide the discussion and help both parties reach a mutually acceptable agreement.
In Florida, mediation can take place:
- Before filing for divorce (voluntary/pre-suit mediation)
- During the divorce process (court-ordered mediation)
For many families, it has become a preferred route to reduce stress, legal costs, and courtroom battles.
When Is Mediation Required?
Florida family courts often require mediation before allowing a case to go to trial, especially if there are unresolved issues. Exceptions may apply in cases involving domestic violence or emergency matters.
If mediation results in a full agreement, the terms are submitted to the court for approval—saving both parties from lengthy litigation.
What Issues Can Be Resolved?
Mediation can address almost every component of a divorce, including:
- Division of marital property and debts
- Parenting plans and time-sharing schedules
- Child support amounts
- Alimony or spousal support
- Relocation requests and other custody concerns
- Modification of parenting issues and alimony
Couples retain control over the outcome, rather than leaving critical decisions in the hands of a judge.
Benefits of Divorce Mediation
Mediation offers a number of benefits over traditional litigation:
- Cost-Effective: Generally, less expensive than going to trial
- Faster Resolution: Avoid court delays and months of back-and-forth motions
- Private and Confidential: Mediation sessions are not public record
- Greater Control: You and your spouse—not a judge—decide the outcome
- Reduced Conflict: Encourages cooperation and respectful communication
- Better for Children: Minimizes exposure to conflict and promotes co-parenting
Learn more about these advantages on our Divorce Mediation page.
Is Mediation Right for Every Divorce?
While mediation works well for many couples, it’s not suitable for every situation. If there’s a significant power imbalance, history of domestic abuse, or refusal to negotiate in good faith, litigation may be more appropriate. That said, even high-conflict couples often find success with the help of a skilled mediator and legal counsel.
What Happens After Mediation?
If an agreement is reached, the mediator drafts a settlement agreement outlining the terms. This document is submitted to the court and once approved, becomes part of the final divorce judgment.
If no agreement is reached, the case proceeds to trial, but any progress made during mediation may still help narrow the issues.
Conclusion
Mediation is a valuable tool in Florida divorce cases, offering a faster, more collaborative path to resolution. Whether ordered by the court or chosen voluntarily, it can help couples move forward with dignity and less disruption—especially when minor children are involved.
Ready to explore your mediation options? Visit Gisondo Law’s Divorce Mediation page to learn more about how the process works and what to expect with legal guidance on your side. You can also call Board Certified Family Law Attorney Grant Gisondo’s office at 561-530-4568 for more information and to schedule a free, initial, in-office (Palm Beach Gardens) consultation. Attorney Gisondo represents clients in the Florida Counties of Palm Beach. Martin, St. Lucie, Miami-Dade, Broward, Hillsborough, and Orange. To learn about Attorney Gisondo and his law practice please visit his website https://gisondolaw.com.